[ENGLISH] Let's make your New Year Resolutions and keep them all through out!

Tired of waking up and seeing posts from your friends of their accomplishments and generally shows that they are more terribly happy with their lives than what you are experiencing right now? Are you feeling pissed already because of not granting your resolutions again for this year? Don't be. The coming of a new year is again a new chance to regain yourself and an opportunity to start over. Every new year is a beginning for all people who don't stop dreaming and believing - and to people who are willing to change. If you're one of it, then that's the reason why your'e here.

Maybe it became hard for you to make your resolutions possible because of hindrances but you should have strive harder. It will be still yourself who will help you to follow up and push through. There will be rough times but your self-motivation will allow you to get up and wake up to a brighter day. Positivity will greatly help you to accomplish what you wanted to resolve for the next year.

Here are some tips on how to make and not to break your new year resolutions:

1. WRITE YOUR NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS

Come on! Don't be lazy. 😂 If you want to make your resolutions come true, you should be disciplined enough by starting to write them on your personal notepad. It is important to jot them down so that you'll be knowledgeable enough (because sometimes you pretend not to know) what you wanted to change. Finding it hard to write an effective resolution? Ask these following questions when writing:

1. Do I really want this? Or is this just to “sound good,” or because I think it’s easy to achieve?

2. Does this contradict any other resolution? If so, adjust one.

3. Would this conflict with others — like others around me? If so, work out the differences.

4. Is it positive, instead of negative? Your resolutions are about what you want, not what you want to get rid of.

5. Is it detailed? If you want something include all the detail you can.

6. Can this be achieved by a human being? Like is it realistic?

7. Is it high enough? If you really want something, you’ll find a way to achieve it. 

8. Am I including the personal changes I need to make? Chances are, you’ll need self-confidence and determination, among other personal qualities, if you’re going to achieve your goals.

9. Have I written each resolution as if it’s already accomplished? Don’t say “I want,” “I wish,” or “I need.” Instead say “I have,” “I am,” or “I own.”

(questions taken at addicted2success.com)

2. READ AND MAKE SURE YOU UNDERSTAND YOUR RESOLUTIONS

It's like writing a caption for your photo post on your Facebook account. You should proofread your resolutions and make sure that you fully understand why you wanted them to happen. Don't just write resolutions because it is required or you are just jealous of the people around you. You should know fully by heart that you wanted change in your life. And you must be aware what this change will benefit you.

3. CLAIM THAT YOU WILL ACHIEVE YOUR RESOLUTIONS WHILE READING THEM

It is not bad to be ambitious when it is a good one and will give a positive output for yourself. While reading your resolutions, visualize what you will achieve and make this as your motivation. As some people say, "CLAIM IT"! As long as you are not doing bad things to others to make your resolutions possible, it will be given to you.

4. AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE, MAKE YOUR RESOLUTIONS DETAILED, POSITIVE AND CREATED BY HEART

It will be easier for you to make changes in your life if your resolutions are in detail. Just like cooking a recipe of your favorite food - results were very good because you strictly followed the recipe and didn't missed a single step and ingredient. Resolutions should be taken seriously. On the other hand, positive resolutions are also encourage to promote a positive life. Write your resolutions not only by mind but also putting your heart on it. Just as you love your puppy, putting a heart on your resolutions will make them real.

5. LASTLY, YOUR RESOLUTIONS SHOULD ONLY FOCUSED ON "YOU"

Nah! A piece of cake. 😂 You don't make resolutions because you wanted to change other people. You make resolutions because you wanted to level up your maturity and you aim for a change for a new beginning.

No matter how hard it is, doing resolutions will help you to achieve your goals and dreams. This will be a stepping stone for you not to be jealous of the achievements of people around you. In this world, there is nothing constant except change. Make your resolutions do come true and the rest will follow. Have an awesome new year ahead!